Sometimes I have too much fun coming up with titles that could be misleading. For example, todays title: “PWN3D.” In gamer terms, it means you got owned or destroyed by your opponent. There was some owning going on today on two fronts really.
First, my wife and I now own a house. We signed the papers (which in the process “owned” my wrist), got the last few things tied up, and now we can move in next week. I’ve still got that sense of it not being real. I think it’s taken me this long to get used to the fact I live in the town that I do and I don’t go home for breaks anymore. Now, I have to remember that after we move next week, when I come home from work, I have to go to a different address. I have no complaints of the new address. It has it’s advantages; for example, we’re painting some rooms just before we move in. You don’t paint rooms in a rental. Well, you can, but the consequences aren’t pretty. So really, owning a house is good.
Of course, there’s always the flipside. Today, while I signed papers that I said I own a house, I also signed papers that said that someone now owns me. Well, probably not a person exactly, but now that I have a mortgage, I am owned by the loan company. Our loan lady is nice, which definitely helps. I also have to keep in mind that we haven’t moved yet. So of course, that day next week will probably own me as well.
I told one of my co-workers today that I bought a house, he responded, “You mean a money-pit.” I’m hoping that’s not the case for a little while. That’s what I currently call my car. But it doesn’t matter, but when all the owning is done to me and by me, my wife and I now have a place we can truly call “Home.”